Time apart/ separación 

Ok, so being my little miracle and him being so dependent on me I haven’t really found the courage to leave him with anyone except his dad yet and he is 3 and a half months old now. 

Vale, al ser mi pequeño milagro y tan dependiente de mí no he encontrado la confianza a dejarle con alguien de momento menos su padre y ya tiene unos tres meses y medio.

My mum was left with him for 20minutes when he was first born as I had to sort out some paper work and my dad had him for an hour at the beach while we went for a quick walk but that’s it….a long time also to not have any couple time at all without him. But leaving him with my parents seemed easier for me and more mind settling than anyone else. Unfortunately my parents live in another country so I can’t depend on them usually for help. 

Mi madre se quedó con él durante unos 20 minutos al principio porque tuve que ir a arreglar unos papeles y mi padre estuvo media hora con el mientras que nosotros salimos a pasearnos por la playa, pero y esta…es bastante tiempo para no tener tiempo para nosotros como pareja también. Pero el dejarle con mis padres para mí es más fácil porque seguirán mis órdenes. Desgraciadamente mis petes viven en otro país asi que como regla general no puedo depender de ellos. 

Well it was our 2nd wedding anniversary yesterday and I built up the courage to surprise my husband by getting someone to babysit whilst we went for a few hours to the spa where we got married. I’d planned to ask his mum to stay with him as my husband would like to see that I trust her to do it too but when I asked her she told me she was working and wouldn’t be able to, much to her disappointment obviously. So the second best thing would be my husband’s brother and partner, that way I was still asking someone from his family. 

Era nuestro segundo anniversario ayer y estuve valiente y decidí hacerle una sorpresa y buscar a alguien para quedar con el bebe mientras nosotros fuimos al balneario donde nos casamos a pasar la tarde. Mi plan era pedírselo a mi suegra ya que a mi marido también le gustaría el hecho que se lo pidiera sin embargo me dijo que no podía porque trabajaba asi que se lo pedí a mi cuñado y su novia. Así era todavía familia de mi marido y le gustaría ver que confió en ellos. 

I sorted everything…they would come at the time my husband was sleeping a nap and then I’d wake him up and we would go. I had the bag for the spa already in the car so he wouldn’t guess where we were going. (Though it didn’t take him long!)

Organicé todo… Ellos vendrían cuando mi marido dormía la siesta y entonces le despertaría y nos iríamos. Tenía la bolsa para el spa ya preparada en el coche para que no podía adivinar la sorpresa (aunque no tardó mucho).

Well I did it! I left him for almost 4 hours and we had a lovely afternoon. Nothing happened and when I got back it was as if we’d never left! (Obviously for a 3 month baby). 

¡Bueno, lo hice! Le deje durante casi 4 horas y pasamos una tarfe Agustín. Nada pasó y hay do volvamos era como si nada (obviamente para un bebé de 3 meses).


I did leave a long list of information of what to do with the baby and what not to do! Not that they needed the list but leaving made me feel more confident so I did. 

Es verdad que deje una lista con reglas e información. No porque les hacía falta pero yo me quedaba más tranquila. 

That’s it I’ve taken the first step now so we will be arranging date nights in the future! 😊

Y ya está, he tomado el primer paso. En el futuro organizaré más citas a solas. 😊

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